It seems everyone’s talking about religion. Steven Den Beste posts about marriage – who should be allowed to marry whom. I don’t think that marriage has any meaning outside of religion, as defined in the previous post (i.e. a system of values). Therefore, I think that the government should get out.
I think it will end up this way anyway. Once we start tampering with the marriage laws, it will indeed be a slippery slope. A particular religion has no problem defining what marriage is, but a government trying to satisfy all definitions will. The next obvious target is polygamy. I think there are more Moslems in the world than homosexuals. Why should we infringe upon a Moslem’s right to polygamy? And how about polyandry? There are a lot less polyandrous societies, but it is by no means unknown. Etc.
Actually, we have this problem already today. A Catholic who gets divorced and remarried can be recognized as married to one person by the Church, and another under US law. Why bother? The US government can create a value-neutral legal definition called, say, civil union, with laws to regulate it, and let the various religions (and non-religions) battle it out on the marriage question.
Posted by David Boxenhorn at July 18, 2004 06:12 PMIn America, I learned recently, state regulation of marriage was instituted to restrict inter-racial relationships, thus had a nafarious, illegitimate origin. And in recent history, no-fault divorce laws are probably more responsible than any other single thing for the poor state of marriage today. The state should totally get out of marriage altogether (including so-called "civil unions" -- which are NOT value neutral) other than perhaps as an enforcer of contract disputes (all marriages involve a contract of some sort) of LAST RESORT.
Posted by: Scott at July 21, 2004 07:06 AM PermalinkYou can think of a civil union (as I envision it) as a pre-made contract, which you are free to accept or reject, whether or not you’re married according to your beliefs. I agree that even this is technically unnecessary, but if people want it, I don’t see anything to object to.
Posted by: David Boxenhorn at July 21, 2004 08:51 AM Permalink