June 06, 2005

Rest In Peace, Bunker

It's hard for me to express my sadness and shock at the news of Bunker's death. It was past midnight last night when I visited his blog and found out. I wanted to respond immediately, but was too confused and overcome with emotion to do so. Never have I felt more strongly the adage that you don't know what you have till it's gone.

I visited Bunker's blog almost every day for more than a year, and he visited mine. We almost never communicated directly, even by email or comment. Yet we linked to each other, and inspired each other - at least he me. Though I know from my statistics that I have quite a few readers, I don't get feedback from many, and on certain topics that I consider some of the most important, I get even less. Bunker was one of the few who seemed to get the message.

For all that, the medium of the Internet is so incorporeal that my cyber-relationships have a dreamlike quality to them. I don't fully believe that they are real. Last night, when I learned of Bunker's death, I was reminded that they are. I will miss him.

Michael James Reed
"Bunker Mulligan"
1953-2005

Rest In Peace

Posted by David Boxenhorn at June 6, 2005 10:38 AM | TrackBacks
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I find the relationships that are created online to be incredibly interesting. They are unique and so very different than what you find in the "real world."

Not a value judgement, but an observation.

Posted by: J at June 6, 2005 11:06 PM Permalink

Thank you David.

Fortunately, his family was able to post the sad news on his blog so that all his blog friends would know. The death of a blogger is a new phenomenon which I discuss at http://www.estatevaults.com/lm/archives/001596.html

Posted by: Jill Fallon at June 11, 2005 03:02 PM Permalink